10 December 2007

It is time for Focus

Seniour Marriage Project:
The goal: learn about the challenges and "joys" of being married
The result: Eh, who knows? It all depends on the amount of effort put in...


Briefing:


Scenario One:
At 1100 hours, Tuesdays, Thursdays, and any other day I bother to drive up there, I find myself happily living in my own little dream world. There are two inhabitants: herself and I. Luckily, she is every bit as crazy as I am. And any day that we are on the same campus, we spend every available moment together. She is so wonderful to me, I've never had anyone truly care this much (outside of two or three very close friends). For some strange reason, I cannot comprehend how there can be two people that are just so crazy.


Scenario Two:
As explained previously, I went to a church retreat, and pranked some college guys. They said that they would kill me, so I made plans to finish up my life. They included graduating high school (having someone write "Congratulations, you've graduated high school!" on some paper), having kids (totally out, I don't want to ruin her life), and getting married (which would be as simple as proposing, and having her say yes). The first two didn't work, but the third did. She is a wonderful girl, even if she is friends with my ex-girlfriend. However, she already has a boyfriend (and after the weekend, she "divorced" me because of him). We are still good friends, however.


Scenario Three:
Same church retreat, I met another girl in my small group. About my height, curly blonde hair, single. She seems to be everything that I'm looking for in a girl (blonde and has a pulse). While I know next to nothing about her, we have started conversing on Facebook, although we have not gotten very far yet. But, she hasn't said no yet. Albiet, I haven't asked.


The Problem:
No man is lucky enough to be able to date two or more girls at the same time, and end up with a favourable outcome. Hence, you come in. I need your help. While I try to get anywhere with all three, I am only entitled to having one. Which one should I focus my attention on?

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